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Mothers Day is officially 100 years old to day
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curmudgeon
2008-05-10 18:25:59 UTC
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100 years ago today, May 10, 1908 the very first Mothers Day observance in
the United States of America, inspired by Anna Jarvis, Methodist, took place
during the church services in Grafton, West Virginia, and Philadelphia,
Pennsylvania. All were Methodist churches.
catchme
2008-05-11 01:40:40 UTC
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Post by curmudgeon
100 years ago today, May 10, 1908 the very first Mothers Day observance in
the United States of America, inspired by Anna Jarvis, Methodist, took place
during the church services in Grafton, West Virginia, and Philadelphia,
Pennsylvania. All were Methodist churches.
nice try but so wrong.

mothers day began with one woman who asked her friends to wear a flower
on their lapel, to honour her mother....it was meant to be HER mother's day.
This woman would later be driven to insanity by her persistent, but
ultimately failed, drive to halt the commercialising of what was meant
to be a personal observance.

so, although my mother doesnt understand, I choose not to recognise this
day as anything special.
Recognising that this day has such tragic beginnings, how can I
celebrate but to honour my mother the same on EVERY day?
The Cross-eyed Barber
2008-05-11 02:40:54 UTC
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Post by catchme
Post by curmudgeon
100 years ago today, May 10, 1908 the very first Mothers Day observance in
the United States of America, inspired by Anna Jarvis, Methodist, took place
during the church services in Grafton, West Virginia, and Philadelphia,
Pennsylvania. All were Methodist churches.
nice try but so wrong.
mothers day began with one woman who asked her friends to wear a flower
on their lapel, to honour her mother....it was meant to be HER mother's day.
This woman would later be driven to insanity by her persistent, but
ultimately failed, drive to halt the commercialising of what was meant
to be a personal observance.
That woman would be Anna Jarvis, and no it was NOT meant to be only
HER mother's day. She campaigned very hard to get an official
Mother's Day declaration to honor all mothers, past and present.

curmudgeon is essentially correct, but the true origins (the idea and
tradition) can be traced much further back to other continents and
cultures. As a matter of fact Anna Jarvis got the idea from her
mother who also had the dream to make it a holiday for all.
Post by catchme
so, although my mother doesnt understand, I choose not to recognise this
day as anything special.
Recognising that this day has such tragic beginnings, how can I
celebrate but to honour my mother the same on EVERY day?
That line of reasoning could be used for ANY holiday including
Birthdays. Well, to each his own. My mother does not recieve any
commercialized recognition. However, I go the extra mile to do
something a little extra special for her on the day meant to honor
her. She sure went the extra mile for me! Matter of fact, I went
over this morning to fix an outlet for her. She's 78 and almost
blind. She cooked me breakfast! Still going that extra mile!

Happy Mother's Day all you Mother's!
ZÿRiX
2008-05-11 13:02:26 UTC
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Anna Jarvis, daughter of Anna Reeves Jarvis, who had moved from Grafton,
West Virginia, to Philadelphia, in 1890, was the power behind the official
establishment of Mother's Day

a.. swore at her mother's gravesite in 1905 to dedicate her life to her
mother's project, and establish a Mother's Day to honor mothers, living and
dead

b.. a persistent rumor is that Anna's grief was intensified because she
and her mother had quarreled and her mother died before they could reconcile

c.. in 1907 she passed out 500 white carnations at her mother's church,
St. Andrew's Methodist Episcopal Church in Grafton, West Virginia -- one for
each mother in the congregation

d.. May 10, 1908: the first church -- St. Andrew's in Grafton, West
Virginia -- responded to her request for a Sunday service honoring mothers

e.. 1908: John Wanamaker, a Philadelphia merchant, joined the campaign for
Mother's Day

f.. also in 1908: the first bill was presented in the U.S. Senate
proposing establishment of Mother's Day, by Nebraska Senator Elmer Burkett,
at the request of the Young Men's Christian Association. The proposal was
killed by sending it back to committee, 33-14.

g.. 1909: Mother's Day services were held in 46 states plus Canada and
Mexico

h.. Anna Jarvis gave up her job -- sometimes reported as a teaching job,
sometimes as a job clerking in an insurance office -- to work full-time
writing letters to politicians, clergy members, business leaders, women's
clubs and anyone else she thought might have some influence

i.. Anna Jarvis was able to enlist the World's Sunday School Association
in the lobbying campaign, a key success factor in convincing legislators in
states and in the U.S. Congress to support the holiday

j.. 1912: West Virginia became the first state to adopt an official
Mother's Day

k.. 1914: the U.S. Congress passed a Joint Resolution, and President
Woodrow Wilson signed it, establishing Mother's Day, emphasizing women's
role in the family (not as activists in the public arena, as Howe's Mother's
Day had been)

l.. Texas Senators Cotton Tom Heflin and Morris Shepard introduced the
joint resolution adopted in 1914. Both were ardent prohibitionists.

m.. Anna Jarvis became increasingly concerned over the commercialization
of Mother's Day: "I wanted it to be a day of sentiment, not profit." She
opposed the selling of flowers (see below) and also the use of greeting
cards: "a poor excuse for the letter you are too lazy to write."

n.. 1923: Anna Jarvis filed suit against New York Governor Al Smith, over
a Mother's Day celebration; when a court threw the suit out, she began a
public protest and was arrested for disturbing the peace

o.. 1931: Anna Jarvis criticized Eleanor Roosevelt for her work with a
Mother's Day committee that was not Jarvis' committee

p.. Anna Jarvis never had children of her own. She died in 1948, blind and
penniless, and was buried next to her mother in a cemetery in the
Philadelphia area.
Mother's Day Landmark:

a.. the International Mother's Day Shrine: this church in Grafton, West
Virginia, was the site of the first unofficial Mother's Day celebration as
created by Anna Jarvis, May 10, 1907
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ZÿRiX
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